Of course, plain vanilla and old-fashioned sex can be immensely pleasurable. But the infusion of BDSM and bondage toys in the equation elevates the experience to new levels of ecstasy. If you are reading this, you realise there is no blueprint for pleasure and sexual desire. Turn-ons and sexual drive can be uniquely different and diverse, as is BDSM. And the best part is until you feel pleasured and enjoy yourself – there is “no wrong way” to do it. Honestly, this is what makes – Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism – great. With that being said, let’s briefly examine what makes BDSM appealing and so amusing.
Giving Up Control
The foreign feeling of losing all control is a prominent factor in the admiration of BDSM. The act of submission is appealing and allows the growth of trust. By giving up control, you transcend the physical connection to depths of emotions through power play.
Creative Exploration
BDSM is as unconventional as sex could get. It already breaks the norm of traditional sex and lets people expand their quest for pleasure. Through edging, pain, bondage toys, kinks, and power games – one can truly experiment and discover their raw side.
Feeling of Power
The intricate web of dominance and submission creates a fascinating paradox between partners. This allows both partners to be vulnerable and gives equal opportunity to be authoritative [or to seek redemption if you are feeling kinky 😉 ]
Bondage Toys – Gateway to Fulfil Your BDSM Fantasies
If you already have a few sex or bondage toys, you might know what the buzz is about. And if you don’t, then get ready to enter a new world altogether. A world of bondage toys and imagination built around seeking pleasure – through any means possible.
Blindfolds
This one’s even for couples who aren’t really “kinksters.”
Blindfolds are excellent bondage accessories to fuel sensations. By restricting one’s visual sense, they force one to feel through touch and intensity.
Blindfolds demand impeccable trust and communication. So, proceed only if you have these vital bonds with your partner.
Bondage Hoods or Bondage Masks
Bondage Masks are another bondage toy designed to cover the face during BDSM. It is usually the submissive one wearing the mask. Many masks have the accessibility of watching, whereas some don’t allow the wearer to even look at what is happening.
Isolation Hoods
A subset of bondage hoods, Isolation hoods are thicker than usual. They are designed to isolate the wearer from their surroundings completely. Isolation bondage toys block out all the noise and eradicate every visual sense.
To make matters more intense, you can add gags and earplugs to amplify the level of dominance or submission.
Collars and Chokers
Collars and chokers hold more of a visual statement than are operational in BDSM. They are worn by the person in submission to dictate that bondage has officially begun. Many have claimed collars spark an emotional sentiment rather than completely sexual in BDSM. They can be used to fulfill a kink or two, but if you plan on any of your fetishes, it is advised to invest in a choker or collar that is designed to withstand pressure.
Posture Collars
Posture collars are thicker and stronger than normal collars. They are designed to ensure safety for the wearer’s neck. They are also crafted to sustain any wear and tear during a bondage session. You can find plenty of options in a bondage toys shop, from thick ones that restrict any neck movement to padded ones that support choking.
Mouth Gags
Mouth gags are best when the power transfer is a turn-on amongst couples. By taking the power of verbal communication, you can give an outlet to another source of communication. It is important always to read your partner’s comfort levels when using mouth gags.
Note: Make sure you decide on common safe gestures before using bondage toys like mouth gags.
Ball Gags
Ball gags serve more purpose than one when it comes to bondage. Like mouth gags, they can be used to cover the oral cavity. At the same time, you can also use ball gags on vaginal or rectum areas to target a pressure point. They come in many different sizes and materials.
Clamps
Clamps are designed to pinch a particular area of the body. The pinching, pulling and squeezing sensation is said to derive pleasure from all the minor pain.
Clamps are particularly designed for nipples, genitals and nose – each with its purpose.
After applying the clamps, twisting, curling, pulling and licking can create pleasurable movements. As you suddenly take off the clamps, the increased blood flow is said to deliver high-intensity sensations.
The Bottom Line
With our age, our kinks can also develop, change or evolve. This makes the world of BDSM an endless exploration. Bondage toys are an amazing addition to spice up your sex life. They can even help in bringing you closer to your partner. However, a serious consideration of consent and trust must be practised before embarking on any BDSM journey.
