A little bit of kink during your bedroom activities? It doesn’t necessarily have to revolve around the traditional play arrangement, that of there being a dominant partner and a submissive partner; there are sex toys for couples which you can incorporate into your bedroom play that can be used by both participants, and other couples sex toys which can be used to put some spice into your sex life really.
Remote control sex toys are a great way to add some excitement and build up to foreplay. There are a wide variety of remote control and wireless vibrators, allowing you or your partner to control the power and pulsation of the vibrations.
The term “kink” really does cover a lot of ground, and encompasses a lot of diverse perspectives; after all, what is one man’s “kink” may well be another’s “norm”. It really can be reflective of something very personal to any particular person, but customarily, it’s sexual play or a sexual act, which may have a touch of taboo surrounding it – play which feels comparatively naughty, and this delivers an excitement into the bedroom, a thrill which you may not usually experience from your regular sex routine.
So let’s talk about Bondage Gear: restraints are a sure way to instil some kink; wrist and ankle ties are a superb means of placing your lover just where you want them, and how you want them. From here, you may choose to initiate a little sensory play; add masks or a blindfold, feathers or pinwheels, to tantalise your unsuspecting paramour with a glimpse of what the night may hold.
Step into BDSM, with the use of a flogger; these items are assembled from a variety of materials, so you can ascertain – and customise – what kind of feeling they will produce on your lover’s skin. Even a leather flogger, alone, is so highly versatile that it can effect sensations which range from tickling to singing, in addition to looking great when paired with some sexy lingerie or costumes which show you mean business – a real treat for the senses.
Wax play is, without doubt, a sensual act – unwind with an erotic massage, and then incorporate the use of a massage candle, an accessory which mixes luxurious sensual oils, melted by the heat of the candle, and then cascaded onto your lover’s skin, which, combined with the warm wax, is hot hot hot!
Prostate massagers will furnish your man with a thrill he may have never experienced before. These massaging prostate vibrators stimulate the prostate, so your man samples sensations which are so intense, they take climax to whole new higher levels.
Vibrating cock rings grant both of you pleasure simultaneously during intercourse – these smart devices fit snugly around your guy’s penis, bestowing a stronger, and longer-lasting, erection, whilst the vibration of the cock ring sits against the clitoris, provoking some intense clitoral stimulation, so you can both allow your hands to wander during your ardent embrace.
Using double ended dildos or strap-ons are an ideal means of getting up close and personal; strengthening the communicative bond between you both; learn how to play with your partner, and each other’s preferences, as both of you are pleasured, simultaneously. The ultimate in naughty kinky play!
Role play can be fun – dress up in sexy costumes and let your imagination run away with you for the evening; why not try some intimate medical play? Or perhaps your partner may need to learn some new skills, under the watchful eye of a strict teacher?
